When was the last time you asked God about your purpose? I have a confession to make. I ask God about this a lot. I ask him when I feel stuck and unproductive. I ask Him when I see what other coaches are doing with their business. I ask Him when I feel like He’s not moving fast enough. I also feel like I’ve asked Him so much about this that He is starting to roll his eyes and tell me. “We’ve already covered this, Allen!”

I’m guessing you’ve asked this question more than once. We can’t help it really. We are hard wired to see our purpose as a destination and not a journey. We’ve assumed that there might be this big career shift or vocation or ministry waiting for us to arrive. And while that could be true, I’ve also discovered that our purpose can be found in the little moments. Of being present. Of taking God with us. Of choosing to be purposeful with what God has put right in front of us.

I’m reading this book. I know what you’re thinking. If you’ve been around here for long, you know that I’m always reading a book. It’s called Let Your Life Speak. In it, the author proposed that sometimes we get finding our purpose all wrong. He recounts his own journey and reminds us that the secret to finding our purpose is to understand our authentic self and who God created us to be.

Before we can start to live out our purpose, we need to understand who we are and who God made us to be. Enter the Enneagram…

What is the Enneagram?

If you’ve never encountered the Enneagram, we’ll start with a small intro. The Enneagram is a personality typing system that identifies nine core types, each with distinct motivations, fears, and growth paths. Unlike other personality assessments that focus on external behaviors, the Enneagram helps us understand why we think, feel, and act the way we do. This self-awareness allows us to see both our God-given strengths and the struggles that may be holding us back.

But here’s the key: The Enneagram is not just for fun at parties to share your type. Instead, the Enneagram helps you recognize the repeated patterns in your life so you can break free from what’s limiting you and align with the fullness of who God created you to be.

How the Enneagram Guides You Toward Your Purpose

When we understand our Enneagram type, we can gain clarity on how we naturally show up in the world. This awareness leads to transformation in three key ways:

1. Recognizing Your Strengths as a Gift from God

Each Enneagram type has unique strengths that reflect different aspects of God’s character. Maybe you are naturally driven and goal-oriented (Type 3), deeply compassionate (Type 2), or a seeker of truth and wisdom (Type 5). When we embrace these gifts, we can use them to serve others and glorify God in a way that feels deeply aligned with who we are.

Reflection: How has God uniquely gifted you, and how can you use those strengths to impact the world around you?

2. Identifying the Fears and Lies That Hold You Back

Every Enneagram type also has a core fear or limiting belief that can keep us stuck. For example, a Type 1 might struggle with perfectionism, believing they must be flawless to be worthy. A Type 6 might wrestle with anxiety, fearing they don’t have enough security. It’s important to note that what holds you back may not be the same as your spouse, friend, or family member. God’s direction for overcoming what holds you back is unique to you and how you are wired.

Reflection: What fears or false beliefs are keeping you from stepping fully into your calling?

3. Walking in Growth and Surrender

God invites us into a lifelong journey of transformation. The Enneagram helps us see where we need to grow—whether it’s learning to trust more, releasing control, or stepping into courage. But ultimately, growth is not just about self-improvement; it’s about surrendering to God and allowing Him to shape us into who He designed us to be.

Reflection: What is one step you can take today to grow in faith and trust in God’s plan for your life?

Aligning Your Purpose with God’s Calling

God has given each of us a unique story, calling, and purpose. When we use the Enneagram as a tool for self-awareness, it helps us strip away distractions, fears, and self-doubt so we can confidently step into the life God is calling us to.

If you’re ready to explore your Enneagram type and how it connects to your God-given purpose, I’d love to walk with you on this journey. Let’s step into greater freedom, clarity, and impact—together.

Ready to Align with Your Purpose?

I offer a one-time Enneagram typing session where you’ll gain an understanding of the Enneagram system, your dominant type, and how that can inform your next steps to living a life with purpose.